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Resilience and Change

10/26/2021 · Kelly Rowe · 7 Comments

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Would you consider yourself to be resilient? Tough? Quick to recover and spring back from hard times? Resilience is a word that I would normally use to describe myself in the big picture of life. How about you?

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Resilience

In my 45+ years, I’ve thought of myself as pretty resilient. However, since Parker passed back in July, something changed for me.

See, I had Parker while I grieved the loss of our sweet Buster back in 2020. It took me almost a full year to feel the sadness subside (I’m not sure it ever goes away). Nevertheless, I was able to function, stick with my normal routine and keep working, etc.

And then we lost our Parker (July 15, 2021).

Unfortunately, there were no more furbabies to help with that pain and loss. The last thing Steve and I wanted to do was to rush into getting another dog. We want(ed) to give ourselves some time to grieve.

Since July, I’ve been sleeping late every day, watching a lot of Netflix, running errands, and/or shopping. And maybe (just maybe) you noticed that I haven’t been blogging as much.

I’ve tried to do a post here and there and keep up with the Weekender, but it’s been tough. As a blogger, you can paint a picture of whatever you’d like — a life filled with adventures, a beautiful home, picture-perfect outfits, etc.

One thing I promised myself when starting this blog is that I would always be authentic. I’ve shared the highs and the lows of life… from buying our Oliver, traveling to Italy, holiday decor to struggles with infertility, rotator cuff surgery, and my hysterectomy.

July was life-changing for me and life has simply been hard (and I’m holding back some tears as I type that).

Fall Foliage. Resilience and Change

In short, resilience has been in short supply for me.

Lessons from Parker

Earlier this month a picture of Parker showed up on my Facebook memories with this caption:

We’re in our third transitional/temporary home and this sweet boy has shown such resilience. He bumps into walls, chairs, corners and furniture. He doesn’t let the blindness defeat him…. who knew they (our fur babies) could teach us a few life lessons? Love my Parker Posey. If I could give you your sight back, sweet boy — I would in a heart beat. 🐶♥️ (October 6, 2017)

When I read that memory, I felt a lump in my throat. He was so resilient. It was another reminder that when life hands you lemons, make lemonade.

Plus, if you’re surrounded by those who love and care for you — you can muster up the strength to crawl out of the dark hole you might have unintentionally crawled into.

Easier said than done, right? I’ve had a tough time finding the motivation to work and I certainly haven’t made lemonade.

And while I want to apologize, I can’t. As we all know, life can be tough. We all go through peaks and valleys (highs and lows). This has been a valley for me. I felt a loss of purpose — as crazy as that might sound.

One thing that I have been focusing on is my physical and spiritual health. I joined WW in July, walk every day and I’ve been getting back to reading my daily devotional and seeking the Lord’s will. Parker always sat with me when I did my devotions, it was a part of our morning routine, so getting back into that groove has been slow going. I know that’s a terrible excuse too… trust me.

Conversation and Change

Recently Steve and I were on one of our daily walks. We started talking about some of our financial goals. Debt is not our jam. Minus our mortgage, the one and only lurking debt is my school loans. We paid one off a year or so ago and we have one left.

And since I feel like I’ve lost a piece of myself lately, maybe some change is in the cards. Change isn’t always bad.

So, the following morning I prayed for wisdom. I prayed for rejuvenation with the blog or for a job to present itself (preferably allowing me to work from home). In my heart of hearts, I knew the Lord knew exactly what I needed and I had to trust that.

New Job

Friends, would you believe that very afternoon I received a message from a local friend on Facebook? It was very vague. However, she said she was hiring an Executive Assistant and wondered if it was something I might be interested in chatting about.

Insert all the chills and goosebumps.

It then said it was full-time, working four days from home and one day in her home office. Crazy, right?

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Let’s recap. A job opportunity out of nowhere, I get to work from home aaaand I get to be a part of a great business.

The following Monday I had a couple of zoom interviews and was HIRED! God is so good.

Pssst. The website on the laptop (pictured above) provides a hint as to who my new employer is. Any guesses? Can you read the URL?

The Blog

Some of you might be wondering, but what about the blog? I’m not giving up the blog (by any means). I love this space and I’m hopeful that I will share more over time.

I feel that a new season is starting and I’m moving forward with an open mind. Most importantly, I’m over the moon for God’s provision.

I’m ready to embrace that resilience I spoke of earlier.

Stick around, friend… there’s never a dull moment around here. I’d love for you to come along with me on this great adventure.

And I want to encourage you to let yourself feel the pain of hurt or loss, lean into those who love and care about you, and find your inner comeback kid.

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  1. Cathy says

    10/26/2021 at 8:22 am

    Good luck and best wishes!

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  2. Ginger K Evans says

    10/26/2021 at 9:28 am

    thanks so much for the share this morning, I really needed that!

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  3. Diane says

    10/26/2021 at 9:37 am

    Hi Kelly –

    I am so happy for you. 🙂 It sounds like a wonderful opportunity for you and worth doing.

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  4. Sue says

    10/26/2021 at 12:03 pm

    Good for you! I wish you well and hope your heart heals.

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  5. JW says

    10/26/2021 at 1:09 pm

    Thank you for sharing your ups, downs and bumps in the road. I, too have found myself struggling this fall. You see, I was a highly trained nurse and just as I was to start working towards my goal of being a practitioner, my dad became critically ill. I worked full time and stayed with him in the hospitals for almost one year, during that time I also managed the building of a medical suite onto his farm home. He had special needs that I was trained to take care of. God’s hand was directing me every step of the way. Mom and I took care of his every need for 8 years and we lost him late last spring. After being on call 24/7 for 8 years straight, I’m giving my self time to recover. All I can say is be gracious to yourself. You don’t have to do what other’s expect of you unless it feels right to you. Take care.

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  6. Colleen says

    10/26/2021 at 1:45 pm

    What a touching post, Kelly! And what a wonderful example of what to do when we’re not sure of the next step – I pray God’s richest blessings on you in this new position!

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  7. Ymana Johnson says

    10/26/2021 at 1:59 pm

    Kelly, I can totally identify with you and your struggles. I, too, lost someone very dear to me who had been around for 50 years. I, too, experienced the feelings of sadness, loss, loneliness, life without purpose, etc. I, too, have struggled for an extended period of time with feelings I wasn’t quite able to reconcile or deal with. I, too, have spent these last couple of years depending on our loving and caring Father in Heaven to lift me up and keep me from totally going under. I, too, am finding my way back to being the resilient person I used to be. Congratulations on your new job. My thoughts and prays are flying your way in the hopes that many more blessings will come to you and that this new purpose in your life will give you back those precious things you have lost.

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